This is simple.
I will outline two straightforward case scenarios from the Bible to explain about a stingy man.
When Eve convinced Adam to eat the fruit in the Garden of Eden, God punished mankind in different ways.
Genesis 3:17-cursed is the ground because of you, through painful toil you will eat food from it all days of your life.
This statement is misinterpreted by women as a call to men to toil to their families, but a generational curse means every one of us with suffer equally to toiling to earn a living.
That’s why we have equal chances to school and hustling equally.
Men are assigned as being heads, women as heirs. Ephesians 5:22.
Being the head means leading in the right ways just as Christ headed the church to submit to God.
Throughout most Bible verses a man is recommended to love his wife, become one flesh with his wife, not be harsh with wives…
Our desires as women should be ruled by our husbands which means you should stay submissive even in your desires.
I will start at verse 10,
A wife of noble character who can find?
Her husband finds full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value.
She brings him good not harm all days of her life.
She selects wool and flax, works with eager hands.
She is like the merchant ships bringing her food from a far.
She wakes up while it’s still dark and provides food for her family and portions for her female servants.
She considers a field and buys it.
Out of her earnings she plants a vineyard.
She sets for her work vigorously, her arms are strong for tasks.
She sees her trading is profitable and her lamp does not go away at night….
Her husband is respected in the city.
She makes linen garments and sells them,
She is clothed with strength, wisdom,and faithful to her instructions..
Is it not amazing?
Are you still depending on your husband?
Making high expectations of your partner or boyfriend?
This is a mind opener.
No one will ever tell you about this, but am telling you now that
There is no stingy boyfriend or husband but you are just a lazy, dependent wife, confused nagging girlfriend.
Is it the socialites who are your role models? Vera Sidika? Zari? Rihanna?
How long do you think they sold p@@@ before realizing they need to invest on themselves and stop hawking their bodies?
This notion that your pussy will buy you plots, cars, or something should end.
Go to a relationship to spice your emotional desires not boost your financial problems.
Be the wife who is bringing something to the table not the complaining wife.
Its time for us women to be the smart woman,
Farm, sales, do anything to better yourself and family.
Regards- Miss Janet (mother, wife,freelancer,student)