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 HOW TO BE ENOUGH FOR HIM

HOW TO BE ENOUGH FOR HIM

It always starts as a happy courtship, like all the puppy, dovey love in the beginning.

Then it happens that in the middle of the relations, he is shifting his attention elsewhere, not necessary another person… maybe watching series 24/7, going out with the boys… or something… he is no longer the person you knew cared for you.

5 FACTS VS REALTY.

1. I am cute and he can’t stand losing me… Logic; even Sidika, Zari, Rihanna or whoever, iconic beauty idols are dumped.

2. I know his parents and we went home to our families so he won’t leave… Logic; people divorce even after a 30 year marriage, he won’t be the first one to divorce you.

3. We have kids together he won’t leave- Logic; Look around, your relatives. Or have you seen Zari, Akothee? Kids are nothing.  How many celebrities are now co-parenting?

4. He took my virginity away, he is the only one to me… Logic; Vagina is not a keeper, they can get it anywhere in their work places they can even buy an artificial one.

5. Am tight, I had CS when I delivered because I was tight….. you had CS probably due to CPD(male pelvis) ,big baby or short cord, meconium stained amniotic fluid or other reasons…vagina is a muscle and muscles decays and become loose with age.

Anyway loose or tight men will still cum. Ever ask yourself how the f#$%#$%k did ‘Baba Brian’ sleep with the house girl from Uganda who is a mother of three and older. Men are curious and once they erect they will cum in any environment..… There is no loose vagina. Just do your kegels and promote muscle tone. There is standard gauged hole size for all women as we age.

WHAT TO DO.

Be there for your man.

Propose of proper projects to undertake as a family, help him keep a proper record of the farm activities at home, etc.

Give him your thoughts about how he is doing.

Be the woman who is sharp and resourceful not just the consumer.

Plan on those days to have sex. After a marriage of one year staying together sex becomes boring because its routine. If you can plan for it and discuss how you will have it, the better.

Choose those days that have less interruption for sex.

Keep time.

(I use a certain app for sex, I recommended it to a friend and she thought I was crazy paying 500ksh per month to explore sex with other couples around the globe. – Called Intimassy app)

Don’t always be the sex and foodie wife. Be a witty extra ordinary woman.

Some days surprise your man by taking a new course, a new job even if it entails business. Surprise him about a book you read today. Tell him about the janitor who died a trillionairre in the book “psychology of money”.

Don’t be a worked up mama at home. Take time out of the routine to be a better woman.

Some days buy supper from your savings. Don’t be the “baba nani pesa ya dinner” type every day.

Stay smart.

Wash your self twice daily. 12 hours are a lot for a woman to shower once. Please make it twice. Smell good and where smart attractive clothes.

Change your closet after two years. Don’t where too old clothes or oversize clothes.

Have time for him. When baby sleeps talk to your man and find out how his day was.

Remember

Squats to get a tight ass won’t keep a man.

Light skin face without brains won’t keep a man.

Surgery to remove ‘tyres’ won’t keep a man.

Keeping a whole sack of makeup won’t keep a man.

Birthing every year won’t keep a man.

But a CLEAN, WITTY, SIMPLE, RESOURCEFUL, NOT NAGGING WIFE/GF WILL KEEP A MAN.

Our counterparts in the rural areas are having longer lasting marriages because they have mastered grinding to keep their homes intact without complaining.

They are also trained to respect and keep a listening ear to their men when they talk.

They are always ready to offer a helping hand.

They are the exact Proverbs 31 women.

Let’s be that woman too

And when he chooses to have extra woman/women, he will chose them in decency not in anger and or despising you.

Regards -Miss Janet (mother,student,wife,freelancer)

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